Well, I asked the guy I wanted to go with, but he was busy that night and I as stuck. I almost went with a blind date thing, but I changed my mind and ask my friend friend. Turns out that guy was too new at the stuff...didn't really know how to dance, kept following me every where, I had to tell him to pay for the before dinner(all of us had to chip in money for that and he said he would pay for it too), left me freezing cold...even when my friend gave him a clue to give his jacket he didn't even notice it. Then when it was time to pay for the after dinner he didn't pay for it I did and I was like hey I'm not suppose to pay for you. Overall, I should of gone with the blind date instead!

[Message last modified 12-30-2003 01:07am by OneLuv]

I wish I hadn't gone to my jr. prom.

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I'm not here to make friends. I'm just here to waste time.

prom?

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i didn't have a date for my senior prom. i ended up having a great time even though i didn't have a date. this one guy did ask me to the prom, but i wasn't really interested in him so i just said no. i didn't want my prom night to be ruin by going with someone i didn't like. i went stag with my other single friends and end up having a memorable time. i hung out with the guy all nite. nothing wrong with not having a date for prom nite. if you ended up going to prom alone it shows that you're confident. it's nice to have a date, but it won't be da end of world if you go to the prom alone. life goes on. once prom is over, you'll be facing the real world and meeting a whole lotta of people out there.

lil'kim
chillin in san diego!!

dam mit......

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I was ask out to the prom alots but one things i can't go dats suck...........

wow..never heard about prom..hmmmmmm..what is it?

 

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my first prom was last year's. the bad thing about it is that my so called "homie" told almost everyone in my grade that i had a date, when it wasn't true. on the other hand, he was busy asking people for ideas of how to ask my "homegirl" but a majority of people thought he was gonna ask me. and if he asked me, i wouldn't have gone with him being the a$s of a friend he is. (lolz..im so mean, but it's the truth) anyways, the guy that was suppose to ask me to be his prom date somehow got word about me already having a date from someone who was gossiping fake stuff around. alot of people were asking that "homie" who i was going with and he's like, "i dunno, but i know it's someone...from another school". what a frikkin liar. gosh. and so, that guy ended up asking some other girl. but i still went to prom anyways and at the event, the guy that was supposed to be my prom date asked his friend why i was all alone when he told him that i was going with someone. and his friend was like "i dunno, that's what her friend said." geez...so, i found out at prom. whatever...i didn't like it anyways. prom was on a yacht on marina del ray and i didn't enjoy it. whatever... it was cold and i don't care but for some reason, i didn't enjoy it. i mean...it was okay...

sidenote: and yes, it is sad when a girl doesn't get asked to prom, but IT IS NOT TRUE that it is because NO ONE wants them as their date. that's so not true. sometimes, a girl may be way off the guy's league that he shouldn't bother to ask. and sometimes, although rare, there's my dumb event. and another thing, my school is majorly korean, so it would be kinda hard for a non-korean girl to get a date within the same school. it depends on the environment as well. on the other hand, it is EVEN MORE SADDER WHEN A GUY GETS REJECTED WHEN HE'S ASKING A GIRL TO BE HIS DATE.

I'm not necessarly saying that a girl that is not asked to prom means that she's unliked. Yes, it could mean that she's so high class that guys are scared to ask her out. It could mean that guys are shy and so on. BUT then again, those are pretty strong generalization. All the guys in the school and can we honestly say that for the guys who ain't got dates yet, feel to scared to ask the girl or feel she's out of their league? Somtimes, I hear single girls who complain "all the guys in this city are losers, they're jerks". and i'm like, "can all of the guys in this city be that bad"? Ya know what i'm saying.

As for it being sadder for a guy to get rejected. Not really cuz it's all part of the game. He ask the gurl, she says no but he tooked a risk and that's gonna prepare him for the next asking. Every guy gets rejected, whether he is the dorkiest kid in school or a good looking actor. As for the gurl who ain't got asked out, it's like, dam, sucks no matter what. hehe.

I dunno, it just another reason why i'm glad to be a guy. I know i'm negative.

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Originally posted by BabieGeeEVEN MORE SADDER WHEN A GUY GETS REJECTED WHEN HE'S ASKING A GIRL TO BE HIS DATE.

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yes, in fact you are lucky to be a guy and you should appreciate that. i, myself, wished i was a guy. that way, i can *!#@^#*meone and not give a *!#@^#*i guess maybe that's the reason why another word for sex is *!#@^#*hmm...or maybe im just being lame. anyways, like i said before, it depends on the environment. im pretty sure your high school (well...you're probably old by now) is pretty different from my high school. and my high school is pretty different from most schools in general. at our school, everyone knows everything...who gets rejected...this and that. that's just how it is here. and guys get the shame over here at my school. alot of girls at my school tend to ask out the guy instead, which i do not like. cuz i want the guy to ask. three of my friends have already asked a guy to be their winter formal date and it's all set and dandy. (just an example.) i don't really know what a typical high school is like. anyways...what i mean is that...you don't really have the "game" at my school, it's all shame. the guy won't bother to ask the next person if he gets rejected. and yes, i go to a lame ghetto school. and no, it doesn't succ for every girl that didn't get asked out...because IN GENERAL...the guy is probably looking to *!#@^#*e date afterwards anyways.

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Originally posted by ducky1over
I'm not necessarly saying that a girl that is not asked to prom means that she's unliked. Yes, it could mean that she's so high class that guys are scared to ask her out. It could mean that guys are shy and so on. BUT then again, those are pretty strong generalization. All the guys in the school and can we honestly say that for the guys who ain't got dates yet, feel to scared to ask the girl or feel she's out of their league? Somtimes, I hear single girls who complain "all the guys in this city are losers, they're jerks". and i'm like, "can all of the guys in this city be that bad"? Ya know what i'm saying.

As for it being sadder for a guy to get rejected. Not really cuz it's all part of the game. He ask the gurl, she says no but he tooked a risk and that's gonna prepare him for the next asking. Every guy gets rejected, whether he is the dorkiest kid in school or a good looking actor. As for the gurl who ain't got asked out, it's like, dam, sucks no matter what. hehe.

I dunno, it just another reason why i'm glad to be a guy. I know i'm negative.

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Originally posted by BabieGeeEVEN MORE SADDER WHEN A GUY GETS REJECTED WHEN HE'S ASKING A GIRL TO BE HIS DATE.

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I've never been ASKED OUT period, during my high school years!! Boo-whoo!